Start Now | Alone or together.

I’m going to be real with all of you. Right now as you read this post, whether on your phone, tablet, or laptop; there is someone, somewhere that is dedicating this time to achieve a dream you both share. While you scroll through your Insta feed, there are people who are scrolling through their vision…

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My Predicament with Love.

I need to get this off my chest. I have a difficulty with the concept of love. The idea of loving someone and them loving me back is one that I continuously struggle with. I have found myself in this situation throughout all of my relationships. The simplicity of this predicament is that, I have…

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Heaven.

When I was young, I would watch the sky for hours as I chewed away on sugar canes in my Nigerian compound. I could hear the shuffling feet and grunting of boys playing soccer a few feet away from me. Moments would pass and one team would cheer and run towards their scoring team mate.…

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The Break Up.

Our last moments were…. final. I guess that’s the best way to put it. Realistically I never expected us to end the way we did. But I’ve learned that some things aren’t worth the trouble. When hurtful words are thrown at you and you find yourself questioning your worth, definitely reconsider whether being with someone…

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Do Your Own Thing.

So you just got out of a relationship. You’re breaking out. Your business partner decided to walk away. Your parents don’t support your career goals. It seems like you constantly find yourself alone. Maybe you don’t like being alone, or maybe you prefer it. But the point is, you are now in a position without…

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Change.

I am going through this era of change, and it is frightening. I do not know what the future holds, but I sense only good things. Part of me is afraid about what my family will think, and the other part is saying “screw it”. I know things will end in complete bliss. The journey…

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Gratitude.

What is the first thing you do when you wake up? Do you scroll through your phone? Hit the snooze button? Dash to the washroom? Or maybe you just glare at the ceiling for a couple of minutes. I do the same. But there is a crucial thing that many forget to do. From the…

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People.

People. They surround us. They influence us. They love us. Sometimes, they even break us. But people, are unavoidable. It doesn’t matter how much you claim to be an introvert.  You can never live without people. We need people. People need us. I am sitting in a cafe and there aren’t much people here. However,…

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Seeing is Believing.

What is your ultimate dream? Now close your eyes, and invasion it. Imagine yourself living your dream. Feel it. Smell it. Taste that wine on your balcony of stone, as you observe people stroll down the Paris sidewalk below. Watch the Italian sunset from your country villa. Memorize the hues of orange, pink, and red…

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